Friday, November 11, 2005

Man Speaking Up




At 6:57 AM, Anonymous said...
This looked like a female blog but I read the comment GoodKnight made so I want to add my comments I think it is good you are getting the male view on things. I agree that woman should say what they want. When ever I ask my wife what she wants, or what does she want to do, she says it doesn't matter what ever I want to do. But you know that what I want to do is never what she wants so it is not that much fun.
It would be nice if my wife would help me out here and once in a while come up with the ideas. I just wanted to say I get tried of always have to make the choices. I intend to show this blog to my wife so she can read.

Man Speaking Up



Thank you "Man Speaking Up" women do want to know what men think so keep on speaking up.

Vanity

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Hi Vanity, I have been reading you blog, I was reading your entry "What do I Desire" the other day and how we should speak up, so I decided to put it to the test. I called my husband at work and asked him out on a date. I think he must have been in shock because he didn't say a word for a long while. So I just told him to be ready at 7 and wear something nice. Boy that was fun, it was scary at first to ask him out because he always makes the plans and arrangements, but it felt good. Then I went out and brought a new outfit, and went to my sister’s house to get dressed. I showed up at my house at 7 and rang the doorbell my husband answered; he was dressed in a nice suit. He was just standing in the door with this look on his face because he had never seen me dress this way, if I am honest, when we normally go out I'm dressed like a school teacher, but now I was wearing a short black dress and heels. And if I say so myself I looked damn sexy. I drove us to the restaurant I choose,I took him dancing, then a walk under the stars. It was so romantic, and my husband once he got over the shock really enjoyed it. That night when we got home he was really in the mood. And you know what, just saying what I wanted to do and speaking up was such a confidence builder I was able to tell my husband what I liked when we were making love. My husband is great he was willing and open to what I was trying to do and he went along with the date and everything without question. I am so very lucky to have him. Thank you for sharing your views, I hope other woman get ideas as good as mind when they read them too.

A New Woman