SET ME FREE TO BE ME

What will it Take

What must be Done

What must be Said

What holds the Door Close

What stops the Free Sprits Flow

What can it be that Impedes Me



Who will tell me what it Takes

Who knows what must be Done

Who can say what must be Said

Who can Open the Closed Door

Who shall Release the Sprit to Flow

Who is it that Impedes Me



Tell the truth! What will it Take

Tell the truth! What must be Done

Tell the truth! Who can say what must be Said

Tell the truth! Who can Open the Closed Door

Tell the truth! Who can Release the Sprit to Flow

Tell the truth! Who is it that Impedes Me



Me! I Know, What it will Take

Me! I Know, What must be Done

Me! I Know, Who can say what must be Said

Me! I Know, Who can Open the Closed Door

Me! I Know, Who can Release the Sprit to Flow

Me! I Know, Who it is that Impedes Me



Yes I Will Do, What it Takes

Yes I Will D0, What must be Done

Yes I Will Say, What must be Said

Yes I Will, Open the Closed Door

Yes I Will Release the Sprit to Flow Free

Yes I Will Stop Impeding Me



Finally



I WILL SET MYSELF FREE TO BE ME



Vanity 2006

What Is Your Type Of Woman

I was talking to a friend of mine today, he mentioned that he is looking for a woman, because he is lonely and wants a companion. So I ask him what type of woman are you looking for. His response was he wasn't sure, so I started to ask him a couple questions. After I did he decided to go away think about it, I am still waiting for him to come back and tell.

So here are the questions I asked him for starters. What would your response be?

WHAT IS YOUR TYPE OF WOMAN!!!!!

The business woman - nice enough but doesn't make you heat rise.
The Submissive woman - on her knees in front of you willing to do your bidding, ready and willing to serve you.
The Dominant woman - who would love to have you on your knees obeying her every command
The equal partner woman - where 69 sums it up
The freaky woman - who wants it hard and rough with a good dose of spanking.
The seductress - a woman who will seduce you till you can't take anymore, then have her way with you
The committed woman - who will love deeply and totally the one she gives her heart to.
The nurturing woman - The woman who takes care of everyone in her life, because she wants them to be happy.
Combination - Woman #___ and Woman #____ etc.
All of the above - Your woman needs to have a part of all these woman in her.

Write your own type because she is missing from the list.

Hmmmm I wonder

Your Seduction Style

My Seduction Style: Prized Object

The seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.The one running has the power, and you're a challenge that is worth the chase.You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away.You are controlled enough to know rewards come after a long seduction dance.Even though you want to call, email, or say "I love you" first - you don't!You're style is the perfect mix of hot and cold - so much so that you have many suitors.Think Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany's ... or any of those creepy guys from the Bachelor.You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for.

What Kind of Seducer Are You?

There is a Freak in Me!!!

Suppose you have been with you man for a while and you love him. But and there is always a but you are not happy with your sex life. It's not that sex is bad it just isn't hot. Somewhere along the way something in you woke up. I say woke up instead of changed because it had to have been in you deep inside to be coming out now. And the sex just isn’t quite hitting the mark anymore.
Here is the tricky part what do you do. This is where things tend to go the wrong way.
Why because in most cases you don't say anything, you just get more and more unsatisfied. You sex life that wasn’t great but wasn’t bad either is now bad. And this can have a snow ball effect, you just becomes more and more unhappy and your man, he becomes more distance or he might just find someone else.
Or you start looking outside for that excitement. Then it goes from here pretty much the same way as the other scenario.
You know lets stop right here and think for a minute why is it we have such a hard time telling our partner how we feel. Where is the faith and respect we have for our mates to trust them with our wants and desires.
Are you worried that if you do tell your mate how you feel he will not understand, he will think less of you and leave you? Well his leaving you or cheating on you could be the outcome if you don’t be honest and tell him.
The bottom line is you don’t know what will happen. The difference is in how you deal with it, will you respect yourself more having lost him because you were honest, or because you cheated on him or he cheated on you. If losing him is the outcome I say take the honest road.
He may surprise you, your mate may be that special man who realizes just what a special woman you really are and be overjoyed that you are his woman.
You can’t bring yourself to tell your partner that there is a little freak in you. Yes I said “Freak” why do we insist on making that a negative thing. Hey look, in a relationship with the right mate that is an amazingly good thing.
Can’t tell him then show him, he might be in shock for a minute but he will snap out of it, then the talking and communicating will began. Just think what a healthier closer relationship you might have.
The pleasure of what you would gain would far out weight the pain of what you might lose.
So after reading this you ask yourself, if I wrote this would I tell my mate that there is a Freak in me.
HELL YES I WOULD BECAUSE THERE IS A FREAK IN ME!!!!

Feeling So Soft, I Can Not Describe

Eyes Close, Senses Awake
Caressing the side of my face
A Feeling so soft across my eyes
A Velvet trail down to my smile
Whispers over my lips, A Feel of Silk
Under my nose, The Fragrance so sweet
Open my eyes to, Color blood Red
Half open, Half close a single Rose
A feeling so soft, I cannot describe
Except to say that the Touch
Of my Southern Lover might
Someday feel this way

NO ONE I LEFT NO ONE

Here I sit 35000 miles over the ocean
Surrounded by steel and strangers
Thinking they don’t know me
Why would they, we have never meet
I think for a minute about it
The question that comes to mind is
Who does know me
Who will miss me while I am gone
Who did I leave behind waiting for me to return
No One I Left No One

No One who will miss my smile
No One who will miss the sound of my laughter
No One who will miss the smell of my vanilla cologne
No One who will miss the silky feel of my skin
No One who will miss the touch of my hand on their skin
No One who will watch a movie and remember that I
Cry on the sad parts
No One who will miss me while I am gone
No One I Left No One

Why is this, why is it that
I have no one awaiting my return
The reason is he has not found me
The reason is I have not fund him
Am I looking for him
Is he looking for me
Yes I am looking for him
I hope he is looking for me
Will we find each other
I do not know, but I really do hope so
But until then
No One I Left No One

Anonymous

At Friday, March 03, 2006 9:29:16 PM, Anonymous said...
where have u been?



Dear Anonymous, I know I have not posted for a while I have been off doing other things but I have not forgot this Blog. I am back now. Thank you for reading my Blog and asking.

Vanity

Values and Beliefs

Values

( Beliefs and Standards)

End values are the states we’ve linked the most pleasure to.
Moving towards values equals PLEASURE
Moving away from values equals PAIN

Beliefs

A belief is a feeling of certainty about the meaning of something.
Your beliefs determine whether or not you feel like you’re meeting your values.
They can either limit or liberate you.

Kinds of Beliefs
Global beliefs ( Life is – People are)
Rules (If this – Then that)

Core Beliefs to Adopt
The PAST does not equal the FUTURE
There is ALWAYS a way – If you’re COMMITTED