AN OLD FASHION WOMAN ????????

When a guy says he wants "AN OLD FASHION WOMAN" now forgive me for being a little slow on the understanding side, maybe I'm just a little challenged but “WHAT DOES THAT MEAN".

I heard that this weekend, a friend was saying that this guy was hard to please because he wants "AN OLD FASHION WOMAN"and it dawned on me, in some cases that is the biggest load of crap. What! Is "AN OLD FASHION WOMAN"going to come knot on his door, or has he some idea where they raise this type of woman. Or is this a case of how you explain you don’t have a woman.

In this day and age with the way the economy is, and the need for two income families, society along with everything that is going on in the world where are you going to find this Gem.

What is the definition of "AN OLD FASHION WOMAN?"

Is it the woman who gets up at the clack of dawn and trends the chickens.

Is it the woman who stays at home takes care of the children, house, and has your dinner on the table when you come home for work.

Is it the woman who works a full time job, takes care of the children, house, and has your dinner on the table when you come home for work.

Is it the woman who does what ever you say, believes everything you tell her, and never questions anything you do.

Is this woman a combination of one or two of the about or is this woman one of the other examples of many I could have listed here.

So my 1st point is if you tell me you want an "AN OLD FASHION WOMAN" then brother the definition of "AN OLD FASHION WOMAN” had better come out your mouth right after you say it. Because if that is what you want then you know what the definition of "AN OLD FASHION WOMAN” is.

My 2nd point is there had better be an old fashion man standing in front of me telling me he wants AN OLD FASHION WOMAN”

I believe as women we need to stop translating what men are saying into our own words, if they said it then they need to put it into terms that everyone understands, so everyone will on the page, wave link, etc.

Men if you want it then you should be able to explain it.

What Haunts Me In The Night

Lay, in my bed, Try to sleep
No sleep comes my way
Close my eyes then I see
What haunts me and Keeps my sleep away

Shake my head; Close my eyes still I see
What haunts me and Keeps my heat so high
Try as I will, Try as I might
I can not push the vision from my sight
What I see is burnt in my memory

Skin the color of ebony
Smile so bright, It lit up the night
A Voice I can still hear, Call to me thru the light
Try as I will, Try as I might
I can not push the vision from my sight
What I see is burnt in my memory

How did this happen
How did I allow this vision
To haunt me so now
What will I do, What will I say
To make it so, I can have my way

I have to have the one
Skin the color of ebony
A Smile so bright, It lights up the night
A Voice that will, Call out to me in the heat of delight

What will I do, What will I say
To make it so, I can have my way
Then maybe the vision, Will go away and
I’ll be able to move on and play


Vanity 2006

Life is Full of Choices

There are so many choices in life to be made on a daily basis, weekly basis, yearly basis, and even on a life time basis. How do you know which choices are the right choices, that's hard to say, sometimes it is just a feeling that it is right. There are different types of choices you have to make, below I have listed a few there are many more.


Moral choices,
A lot of choices fall under this group and sometimes these are the choices that are used by society to control you. You have heard the saying “That is just morally wrong” (How you dress, who you date, if you’re religious)

Family choices,
Do I want children or not. This choice most of the time is left to fate. There are some who plan to have or not to have children. But a vast majority of the time it is a surprise or should I say a shock.

Career choices,
What kind of career do I want? Do I even want a career or do I just want a job, there is a difference, and you do make a choice, you might even have made that choice without realizing you made a choice.

Relationship choices,
Who do you want to be with? Do I care for this person or don't I. These choices need to be made in sync with another. The other person has to return the feelings or no matter how you feel about it there really isn’t a choice to be made. There are times when the choices you have to make in this area may cause you pain in the beginning but in the end will be the right choice and will be the best choice for the situation.

Lifestyle choices,
Moral choices, family choices, career choices, and relationship choices can all come together to make a lifestyle choice.

Sometimes it is hard to make a choice because we are comfortable with the way things are, and we are a little afraid of change and the unknown.

It is always a personal choice as to how bold a choice you can make. Well if all these choices are not sometimes confusing I don't know what it.


But every choice you do or do not make has an impact on your life or your destiny.

SMILE

Smile It's your birthday
Smile, and see in your minds eye
The smile on my lips
The lust in my eyes
The dream that was beautiful while fate allowed.
The many words we wrote.
While sharing fantasies was allowed
The fires that burned with hunger so deep
Nothing will ever come to compare
With the cyber life we learned to share.
The dream that was beautiful while fate allowed.
Was something really rare and so hard to compare
Has ended now and is almost too much to bear.
But always know that you are in my heart, and
That I will always care.
The fires that burned with hunger so deep
Will be there burning till they no longer leap
With the feelings I could not explain
It is what it is, It was what it was,
Fate and Faith go hand and hand
Sometimes you have to take the chance
Hold out your hand
And take the waiting hand.
So Smile
It’s your birthday
See in your minds eye
The smile on my lips
The lust in my eyes.
As I promise not to cry.


Vanity 2005

Dear Anonymous

At Wednesday, January 18, 2006 7:16:26 PM, Anonymous said...
Dear Vanity,I too am very comfortable in my skin, although a little younger than you. I enjoy life every single day and I think that “pleasure” is major part of it. There are so many different ways that people experience pleasure and it will not be the same for everyone. I know what I enjoy so far. People should always look for positive experiences that they enjoy and it will make them better people to be around. I liked the quote “I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.” (Just think how nice a person is when experiencing pleasure.)I am at a point in my life that I notice that there are many pleasures I have not yet experienced. Although I am happy with where I am, there is so much more I want to try. For example, Travel to far-away countries, go on a 4-week vacation on beach, ride a motorcycle, own a horse, have a pool boy (and I don’t have a pool). The list goes on. My guess is you would really enjoy traveling. I would think you could find a lot of pleasure in other countries. I would suggest a trip to Brazil, Spain or Indonesia. I am sure they would provide some good experiences. Anyway, I hope you find many pleasures on your birthday. Enjoy every minute of your day and have a great 2006!

Dear Anonymous,

The four week vacation on the beach sounds great, ride a motor cycle that's worth thinking about, and the pool boy that warrants serious thought.

Now the trips Brazil

and Spain wouldn't mind, but

Indonesia I think I might pass on that one.

Thanks for the birthday wish and you keep on enjoying life.

Vanity

Here Comes 50

My birthday is in a couple of days, On the 16th of this month, I will be 50, that is half of a 100. How do I feel about that?

I FEEL GREAT!!

I have never been happier in my life. I know what I want out of life now. I have found my inner peace. For me it is being in tuned with the pleasures of life.

I am happy with myself, and I surround myself with people who are happy to be with the person I really am. No more trying to live up to what other people think I should be.

What you see is what you get and I happen to think that what you see is great.

Everyone may not agree with me, but that is what is so great about it! They don't have too.

Because for every one who doesn't there is one who will love what this 50 year old woman is bring to the table.

So as I start on a new era, I invite all my friends to come ride with me, it's gonna be a blast!!!

Vanity

Everything We Do

Everything we do in life is pleasure and we have to make sure that we
make it that way our happyness depend on ourselve to make it pleasure.

ruth_mobley2004

Pleasure

Pleasure

Pleasure is life, life is Pleasure
What took me so long to see
That when I enjoy life all is right with me

Pleasure is life, life is Pleasure
If I take care of me, I can take care of thee
I come first this is now a part of me

Pleasure is life, life is Pleasure
Look how my smile washes over thee
Feel the warmth that flows from me

Pleasure is life, life is Pleasure
Now step into my circle and let me warm thee
Open your mine, open your heart, open your arms and receive this warmth from me.

Vanity