Have you ever wanted somebody or something so bad you could taste it. That is a powerful driving force. That force can have you doing things you would never do, saying things you would never normally say.
If it is somebody you wanted you might find yourself pouring out you soul to them. Telling them all your secrets, just opening your heart, giving away the key.
Now if that somebody in the end feels the same way you do then all is fine.
But sometimes because of that driving force your vision can become just a little cloudy, and you might fail to see the signs.
When that someone does not feel the same way you do. Now that is the hard part.
So what do we do now.
WELL!!!
I say first have a good cry, you feel a sense of lost so embrace it, cry for the lost you feel. It is unhealthy to keep your feelings bottle up.
Then when there are no more tears, let yourself think about how good the feelings were that you had for that person. Allow yourself to feel good about those feelings, do not allow yourself to attach negative thoughts to good feelings.
No one needs negative baggage to carry with them to their next relationship.
We need to be aware that every relationship we form is not meant to be permanent. Some people are just passing thro our lives.
Negative feelings get in the way of true pleasure. And since I believe that pleasure is the key to a good life, I don't plan to let negative feelings keep me from finding and enjoying the pleasures of life.
Vanity
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